The Art of Presence
When you’re facilitating a retreat, it’s important to be fully present with the people in front of you. Each person who comes to a retreat wants something different from their experience—but each one also deserves full attention and support throughout their journey. This means staying focused even when there are periods where nothing seems to be happening (which is an apt description for most spiritual experiences). If someone says they want quiet time alone or space during a group meditation, it’s important to honor that and not force them into an experience they wouldn’t choose for themselves.
If you’re facilitating a retreat, you need to be able to stay present with your participants no matter what the activity is or where they are on their journey. This means shutting out distractions like social media and checking email only when necessary (and even then sparingly). It also means being fully available for any of the people with you at all times. Because without presence, there can’t be communion between facilitators and participants on a spiritual level.
The Art of Intuition
Along with presence, one of the most important tools in your facilitator’s toolkit is intuition. When you’re facilitating retreats, it can be difficult to know what each participant needs at any given time—especially when someone isn’t speaking up or participating much. But there are ways for you to learn more about their experience through intuitive means. You might notice that a person has stopped participating in an activity and instead stares off into space frequently during group meditations…
or maybe they have trouble falling asleep at night because they’re filled with so much energy after being engaged all day long. If this happens with a participant, ask yourself if perhaps something deeper is going on emotionally that requires your attention or resolution before moving forward. Your intuition might not give you the answer right away, but it will guide your decision-making process.
Intuition is an innate human ability—one we all have access to.
Think about some of the most important decisions you’ve made in your life—the ones where following your gut instinct paid off in the end. Chances are that those decisions were guided by intuition rather than pure logic. Intuition isn’t always right, but it’s usually pretty close which is why experienced facilitators tend to trust their intuition more than anything else.
When you’re faced with a difficult decision, you need to know how to listen to your intuition. If two people could equally handle a particular role during the retreat, pick the one that feels right from your gut. Or if you’re trying to decide which meditation technique or activity would be most beneficial for everyone involved, choose the option that makes the most sense intuitively.
Intuition is an innate human ability—one we all have access. You can develop this muscle by practicing meditations and exercises designed specifically for developing Intuition over time, but sometimes you’ll also find yourself using it spontaneously in daily life without even realizing what’s happening at first. It takes practice and patience (just like anything else), but the more you use it, the better you’ll get at trusting your inner voice.
The Art of Decision Making
Making decisions is an important part of facilitating retreats—but that doesn’t mean they always have to be hard ones. Some decisions simply require a bit of research or input from others. But there are also times when only intuition will do (as we’ve discussed). So how can you tell which is which? You need to learn to trust yourself and follow along with what feels right in your gut most of the time without overthinking things too much. When someone asks for advice about something, give them options instead of just saying one thing is better than another; let them decide for themselves.
If you’re facilitating a retreat, it’s important to take everything in stride and not let your emotions get the best of you (especially when people are upset about something). But this doesn’t mean becoming emotionally detached either; there needs to be a balance between processing what’s happening internally while also keeping your focus on those who need support right now.
Facilitating retreats is a rewarding experience—but sometimes difficult as well. You have many responsibilities that require patience and flexibility from start to finish, but they’ll all come together more easily if you can stay present with everyone involved at all times without letting anything bring down your mood or distract you from the tasks ahead of time. And during each activity throughout the day, give yourself permission to use your intuition as a guide for making decisions that will be best for the group.
The most important thing is to stay connected with yourself and those around you and trust that everything will work out in the end.
Just like in any other situation, there will be bumps along the way, but by using all of the tools at our disposal—presence, intuition, and good decision-making skills—we can make sure that every retreat goes as smoothly as possible. If you’re interested in learning more, get in touch with me today at hello@theawakenedescape.com! I’m happy to discuss my thoughts on how I may be able to help you create a memorable experience. I’d love to partner up with you so that every one of your retreats is successful.